Let us joyfully and exuberantly celebrate our founder’s Feast Day, and go forth as he encouraged, “to be a gentle and valiant spirit!”

Written by Elizabeth Eilers Sullivan, Visitation Alumna
If we are to commit to “finding God in all things,” then this informs our discernments; our holy decision making. It colors our perspective, enhances our outlook on life, makes our life feel touched by the sacred, the divine. Our marvelous ordinary life becomes extraordinary, and in its extraordinary space comes forth an expansive humility that St Jane de Chantal and St Francis de Sales speak of when they encourage the little virtues as the road to holiness.
If we really take on this cloak of finding God in all things in our life, we begin to see patterns that emerge, some we might find life giving and others we might be invited to prune in order to make room for more life. This is noted by our interior responses of our heart. that if we stay authentic to the revealing pattern it will lead us toward more life, more love, and more generosity of spirit.
I can look at the apparent chaos of my life and see it as just that chaos. A slew of requests when I am getting the littles ready to go out the door in the morning. Or I can invite myself to find God in my mornings, and breath in the littles simple dependance. With this prayer on my heart their need for me to do, assist, help, or encourage depending on their ages becomes sweet like honey that God gave me these four gifts to nurture and nudge along in their growth from getting dressed, to grasping the intimacy of their loving God. The mere fact that they can trust that I am here with them through the mundane muddle of everyday routines to the bigger questions they pose, “Is God visible?” and be just as in awe at them buttoning their pants alone for the first time as the questions they ask, means together we encounter the sacred as we clothe ourselves in God’s graces. This brings me to my knees; I am humbled by their beauty.
What patterns emerge for you when you contemplate God’s grace flowing in your life?
Written by Elizabeth Eilers Sullivan, Visitation Alumna
This was the invitation at this past Sunday’s mass to find our beloved God in everything. The priest giving the homily was quoting St. Ignatius of Loyola, but St. Jane de Chantal and St. Francis de Sales also firmly believed that God was in the ordinary doings of our lives and to seek God no further than there.
Isn’t this lovely and refreshing? Isn’t this what we hope to imprint on the hearts of our little ones, our friends, our family? That God is in everything! Isn’t this what we hope for when things seem apparently bleak that God will still show up, still be present, still give us hearts to see the graces of our lives at hand? Or in the mundane or the joyous that there too we find God. It is like an ongoing love note.

Puddles
I remember being taught this, but it was not until I understood at the heart level that God is love and to find God we channel and find love that I really grasped God being in everything. I remember the day it really clicked for me, I was a sophomore at Boston College. It was a glorious sunny spring day and by that afternoon puddles revealed themselves everywhere on campus. I paused by one that earlier had been covered in ice, and remember thinking how miraculous it was that what was hardened had melted. Then my mind made the leap to God melts hearts that are hardened, and I just stared and stared at that puddle. My Jesuit Professors voice echoed in my ear, “God is in everything,” and the Sisters Salesian lessons from my years at Visitation came soaring back, and graces washed over me because I began to see how God was within me and within others and even in the landscape.
In this new year, with another fresh, fine layer of snow outside how is God that fine dusting on your life? How is God outlining your life, tracing your every mark with love? How is God in everything for you?
Written by Elizabeth Eilers Sullivan, Visitation Alumna

Wise Men Bringing Forth their gifts
As we approach the epiphany this week, we wish you and all of yours the grace of the new year!
May it be fresh like the newly fallen snow.
May it be laced with the wisdom of the years that precede it.
May it be filled with moments where you are present to what is,
where you love what is,
where you grow to the next moment because of what is before you.
May your new year be filled with ephinanies of love that never could have been before now,
and that will never be again in quite the same way here after.
May your light shine bright in the world,
akin to the glow of Christ’s birth,
may you celebrate your blessings.
Written by Elizabeth Eilers Sullivan, Visitation Alumna

O What a Morn! Christmas brings out the child in each of us. May you know it's wonder, feel it's warmth, and share it's love. Christmas Blessings! By Brother Mickey McGrath
Each Christmas it becomes more clear to me that this holiday is all about relationship, much like Elizabeth and mary’s Visitation!
Christmas is about remembering, about thinking, about preparing for those we love near and far, those known to us, our neighbors, our families. The “stuff” that surrounds Christmas, if done at all, is about saying “I know what you like and because I love you I have taken time to think about what you might derive joy from and prepare it for you to receive.”
So Christmas is both about giving, and in giving, we empty our hands to receive what others prepare with us in their minds and hearts. Therefore Christmas becomes a true discernment of our relationships with others. And whether or not material gifts are given, when we approach Christmas with the Visitation Spirit of relationship the joy and spirit of the holiday leaps from our hearts much like Mary and Elizabeth felt their babies leap in joy at the recognition of one another! May we approach the Christ child with such recognition, such relationship and such joy as we wait in excited anticipation of his birth this week!

Shepherds and the Star of Bethlehem
“The Shepards are the poorest ones, yet they are the first to arrive at the creche. They show us that Jesus is not counting on our wealth or our strength, but rather on our simplicity.” -Taken from Magnifikid!
Please share how you hone the virtue of simplicity in your life around the holidays.
Words of wisdom from Henri Nouwen, Dutch Catholic Priest and Writer

Guadalupe and Juan by Brother Mickey O'Neill Mcgrath
“Waiting is active. Most of us think of waiting as something very passive, a hopeless state determined by events totally out of our hands. The bus is late. You cannot do anything about it, so you have to sit there and just wait. It is not difficult to understand the irritation people feel when somebody says, “Just wait.” … The secret of waiting is the faith that the seed has been planted, that something has begun. Active waiting means to be present fully to the moment, in the conviction that something is happening. A waiting person is a patient person. The word “patience” means the willingness to stay where we are and live the situation out to the fullest in the belief that something hidden there will manifest itself to us. Impatient people are always expecting the real thing to happen somewhere else and therefore want to go elsewhere. The moment is empty. But patient people dare to stay where they are. Patient living means to live actively in the present and wait there.”
By Deacon Dale from Ascension Church in north Minneapolis, and a friend of the Sisters
(Based on the First Sunday of Advent’s Readings)

First Candle of Advent
I spent a lot of time with my grandparents when I was young. One day, a neighbor came to the door with a Christmas gift. Grandma opened it. It was a box of chocolates. The first thing Grandma did was offer her neighbor first choice of them. Then she offered one to me and then she and Grandpa chose one. Later, they shared the chocolates at a family gathering. I don’t think they opened that box without sharing it. It was a gift. A gift was meant to be shared – especially with the giver – and then with others. It was just the right thing to do.
Charlotte Bradford was a elderly neighbor who died two years ago. She has a son, Mike, did the Charlotte’s outside work. Mike is retired and has free time. Since 2007, when he finishes shoveling Charlotte’s sidewalk, he still comes over and cleans ours because he knows I can’t. One of his elderly neighbors has leukemia. He takes him to doctor appointments and chemotherapy treatments. Mike’s time is a gift. For him, it’s a gift to be shared. It’s just the right thing to do.
Geb was part of my Men’s Group in Forest Lake. He and his wife have seven children. With their large family, they really had to stretch every penny. One evening, our Men’s Group was discussing tithing. Someone asked, “Should we give 10% of our net income or should it be 10% of our gross income?” I remember Geb’s response, “For me, there’s no question. I just ask myself if I want a net blessing from the Lord or do I want a gross blessing from the Lord?” No doubt – Geb saw his income as a gift to be shared. It’s just the right thing to do.
Today, Isaiah reminds us to “rejoice heartily in the Lord” because God has “clothed us in a robe of salvation and wrapped us in a mantle of justice.” Virtually all of us want to be clothed in that robe of salvation. But, how many of us want to be wrapped in a mantle of justice?
A mantle is an outer garment, like a robe without sleeves. Worn as a symbol, it was a sign of who the person was –a prophet, a priest, a leader, a merchant, a craftsman. God wants us to wear a mantle of justice. Justice is doing the just thing – just doing the right thing – sharing the gifts God gives us. It is the mantle God wants us to be known by – a sign that tells the world, “This who I am!” So this Advent, let’s wrap ourselves in a mantle justice. It’s what God wants. It’s just the right thing to do!
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What are the gifts God gave you, that you share? How do they help you do the right thing? Or whose gifts are you grateful for in your life? How have they provided a path of justice for you or others? Please share in the comments section!
Posted by Elizabeth Eilers Sullivan, Visitation Alumna
"When we live our vocation we are invited into deeper simplicity. Deeper relationships with others, deeper authenticity, love, and joy, and deeper freedom."
To further our contemplation on discernment of our vocations, the Quaker song by Shaker Elder Joseph Brackett, Jr. in 1848 comes to mind. When we live our vocation we are invited into deeper simplicity. Deeper relationships with others, deeper authenticity, love, and joy, and deeper freedom. I invite your reflections of how by “turning, turning we come out right…”
“’Tis the gift to be simple,
’tis the gift to be free,
’tis the gift to come down where you ought to be,And when we find ourselves in the place just right,
It will be in the valley of love and delight.Refrain:
When true simplicity is gained,
To bow and to bend we shan’t be ashamed.
To turn, turn will be our delight,
‘Til by turning, turning we come round right‘Tis the gift to be loved and that love to return,
‘Tis the gift to be taught and a richer gift to learn,
And when we expect of others what we try to live each day,
Then we’ll all live together and we’ll all learn to say,Refrain
‘Tis the gift to have friends and a true friend to be,
‘Tis the gift to think of others not to only think of “me”,
And when we hear what others really think and really feel,
Then we’ll all live together with a love that is real.Refrain